With the school year ending and several of my friends entering into a new season, I wanted to talk a little bit about figuring out what you want to do in life, career wise. It really is a personal journey (emphasis on journey) to discovering that age old question, but I do want to stake this claim: it’s hard to go wrong if you follow your passion.
But first, a little annecdote:
I remember when I was submitting my college applications, I felt so much pressure to chose the “correct” major. I was scared that if I didn’t pick the right path to start on, the rest of my career life would be ruined, utterly ruined! (Yes, I could be a bit dramatic…). At the same time, while I absolutely love my dad and know he has only the best interest for me, I felt a lot of pressure from him in picking a career that would be secure and make a whole lotta money. I was good at math and science, and was on my way towards becoming a genetic engineer – something I was genuinely interested in but not passionate about. I realized then that despite my dad’s firm beliefs that I should at least get an undergraduate degree in engineering (a path my sister took, and now is an amazing patent lawyer), it wouldn’t make me happy. Instead I signed up for Communications in attempts of becoming a journalist, realized that wasn’t for me either, considered advertising, marketing, and being a buyer for big-time department stores, etc. etc. and overall felt a bit lost by the end of my college career.
I finally decided to sit down and really think about what my passions were. I’ve always been drawn to creating: clothes for my Barbies, Christmas wreaths, Mod Podge collages, I loved it all. I’ve enjoy writing quite a bit. I also wanted to help people – maybe I wouldn’t be a doctor or a lawyer or an engineer, but if I could figure out how to help people feel better about themselves at least, then I would be satisfied. That’s how this whole blogging business came about, and while I’ve only been at it for less than a year, I’m loving it and have big dreams for the future.
All this to say, if you want to have a successful and satisfying career, follow your passions. I wholeheartedly believe that if you are doing something you love, you will naturally strive to and eventually become very successful at what you do. I believe we were given specific passions for a reason. One this is for sure, when work is fun, you work hard. One of my favorite quotes of all time is by Henry John Heinz of Heinz ketchup, who said “To do a common thing, uncommonly well, brings success.” I think that dose of “uncommonly well” ability comes from joy for what you do, whether it’s becoming a doctor or creating art, or perhaps being an amazing mom.
So, think of those things you love to do, what your natural abilities are (even with something as silly as being able to burp, really really well), and consider how that can be turned into an occupation. Easier said than done, right? It’s not a simple process, or even a quick one, but when it clicks you’ve got a ticket to a very satisfying and successful career! If you need to supplement it with another job, do it, but don’t give up on those passions.
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PS – I just want to say as well, your career should never be your life. My husband and I remind ourselves of this everyday.







Renee
1 year ago
Great post! I think its so important to do what you love, even if it doesn’t make the most money or carry the most prestige
Maria Reply:
June 15th, 2010 at 9:28 am
Sometimes the way we value certain occupations in America irks me, ya know?
Angeline
1 year ago
Love this post…both the message and the way you wrote it. You definitely have a way with words.
I totally agree in following your passion. And it’s okay if that changes. I’ve changed career paths two or three times already since I graduated high school (including 2 college majors and a completely different master’s degree), but I wouldn’t trade my experience in each of those various fields for anything. I’m almost five years into my current career and, while I love it, I feel it’s still too early to say that this is what I want to be doing for the rest of my life.
Just a note on the money thing–there are some passions that just won’t pay the bills. It’s perfectly okay to have a job just for the sake of helping you survive, as long as you are getting your fill of your passion on the side.
Maria Reply:
June 15th, 2010 at 9:29 am
Thanks girlfriend – changing the “plan” is definitely something I’ve had to come to terms with myself
Angeline
1 year ago
Haha just went back and reread and we are totally on the same page about the job/money thing
Love it!
Leah H.
1 year ago
Great post, Maria. Very inspirational. I’m going to art college for Photography after switching my major from Journalism. Needless to say, my parents were not excited about my prospects. My mom said I would be a “starving artist”, lol. I’m a senior now, I’ll gradate with my BFA in the Fall. A lot of the time I wonder if I can “make it” as a photographer but I know I won’t be happy if I don’t at least try.
Maria Reply:
June 15th, 2010 at 9:31 am
Good for you Leah, I’m really impressed! I know how it is to go against what your parents want for you, but the way I see it is, the people who are successful are those who don’t necessarily play it safe.
caitlin marie
1 year ago
Hey Doll, I’m definitely feelin this post. It’s only been a few weeks since commencement and all anyone’s asking me is what I want to do/what I’m planning to do, it’s so overwhelming!
It’s funny have pretty much that exact same picture in the Greek! haha, also our reasons for blogging are pretty similar. I know exactly what you mean, trying to fit all your interests and talents together into something real and cohesive that you can be proud of. I really admire how diligently you keep up with it; it’s not easy. <3
xo caitlin
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Maria Reply:
June 15th, 2010 at 9:32 am
Hahaha! That’s so awesome. I know that overwhelming feeling – I took the summer off after graduation to just figure things out. Thank you for your encouragement
darren
1 year ago
Great post Maria. Can you believe its already been a year since graduation? I was at Davis’ College of agric. & environmental science commencement today to see the last pool of friends walk across the stage. It was kind of sad; finally hit me how much time has passed!
Maria Reply:
June 15th, 2010 at 9:33 am
This last year has both gone by sooo fast and also feels like a lifetime since college lol!
benny b
1 year ago
i don’t know how i missed this article… well written, maria! and highly encouraging. i’m still confused about what i’m going to do…
Maria Reply:
June 15th, 2010 at 9:35 am
Thanks bud. I am too, I’m just trying to take it day by day and I trust God has been giving me stepping stones to get to the “final destination” lol.
Cheryl
1 year ago
i agree with this post 100%. it’s exactly what i’m trying to do with my blog as well. it’s so important to be happy with what you do, even if it doesn’t define you. lovely!
http://cherylclarke.blogspot.com